What if God never intended your marriage to merely survive, but to become a HOT marriage?
Many don’t think the words “hot” and “marriage” go together, but God does. He designed marriage to be passionate, transformational, and deeply satisfying. Yet too many couples have lost the fire, gave up too easily, or worse, given up on marriage altogether.
In Hot Marriage, you will discover a fresh, deeply biblical perspective on marriage. This is not another book of tips and tools, but an invitation to rediscover God, yourself, and each other through the supernatural fire of God.
Drawing from Song of Solomon 8:6 — “Love bursts into flames and burns like a hot fire” — Hot Marriage explores the nature and purpose of this divine fire and how it can ignite love, passion, intimacy, and purpose in your marriage. Whether you’re newly married, looking to strengthen your marriage, seeking greater marital intimacy, or longing to reignite passion in your relationship, Hot Marriage will challenge you to see your marriage in a new light and provide simple steps you can take.
Hot Marriage is a movement for couples willing to embrace and cooperate with God’s sacred fire and experience marriage as He intended. You are invited.
Hi, I’m Stephen Buckner, the author of Hot Marriage.
The early feedback is clear and consistent. Readers are saying it is completely different than any marriage book they’ve ever read.
One couple described it as “A fresh and encouraging perspective that challenged our thinking, deepened our appreciation for the gift of marriage, and helped us see God’s work in new ways.”
Another reader said, “Stephen has written a book in such a way as to spark new energy into a marriage. He has provided a clear guideline for couples to ignite a new flame in their relationship.”
As the subtitle says, you’ll learn about the fire of God, why its relevant to your marriage, and how to experience it with your spouse…regardless of the age, stage, or condition of your marriage.
What readers are saying…
“I didn’t realize how much I needed to read this book.”
“Innovative and inspiring.”
“A gold mine for every couple.”
“I thought I had read marriage books approached from every angle. I was wrong!”
“One of the most unique and meaningful marriage books we’ve read.”
Could your marriage use a spark?
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